to cohabitate or not

are we ready for the big step? i'm thinking yes. he's at my house with me more often than i'm there by myself. altho he still prolly spends more time in wayland than at my house overall. the only stumbling block i see is vlad. he's not ready to give him up - and i can't blame him, i wouldn't be ready to give up sage. i'm not sure i'm willing to have him at my house. i certainly don't want to listen to mom about it. i'm concerned about homeowners insurance and rich. i think we can safely secure him, but ... still risks. i had a list of criteria that i thought i was ok with until i read a bunch of sites. except vlad doesn't seem to fit what the sites say. after calming down about the information on the sites, i think my critieria is ok. guess the best option is to run it by him and sleep on it to see how we feel.

-s