pre-nups and co-habs

now that bill and i are taking the big step and moving in, pre-nups and co-habs are a topic of discussion. i feel bad that he thinks it means i don't trust him. it's not that i don't trust him. i don't trust me and my decision to trust him. i've been there before and found it incredibly frustrating with the 'pre-nup' the state defines. i particularly like grrl genius's take on it:

http://grrlgenius.ivillage.com/love/archives/2006/10/marriage_smackdown_part_two_th.html

-s